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profdant139
Explorer II
Dec 27, 2014

Boondocking and the idea of "dolce far niente" -- wow!

I just came across a reference to the concept of "dolce far niente" -- I had no idea what it meant. It turns out that it is an Italian phrase that means "the sweetness of doing nothing." It is not being lazy or procrastinating -- it is the conscious enjoyment of just hanging out, letting the world go by.

I am posting this here because my immediate thought was "yes, this is what boondocking is really all about!" Unlike camping in a busy RV park or a campground, camping in the outback uniquely lends itself to this idea. And at home, the phone rings, and the emails pile up, and there are chores that really should be done, and the TV, and so forth.

I wish we had a word or phrase in English that captured the same state of mind -- "zoning out" does not work. It is the mindset that you get while sitting in a comfortable camp chair in front of a fire, or in a warm bed listening to the rain on the roof of the RV, or reading on a cold evening inside the RV while the wind blows through the trees.

The closest I can come is a term my kids used to use -- "chillaxing." But it does not quite do the job -- it does not include the awareness of the luxury of doing nothing.

If you have a good English equivalent for dolce far niente, let's hear it!
  • IMHO, no new words or phrases are needed. For comparison purposes to "dolce far niente", here's a redacted clip from my dictionary giving the meaning of the good old word "vacation":

    "The act or an instance of vacating. vacationed, vacationing, vacations. To take or spend a vacation. Middle English vacacioun, from Old French vacation, from Latin vacti, vactin, freedom from occupation, from vactus, past participle of vacre, to be empty, at leisure."
  • Gjac's avatar
    Gjac
    Explorer III
    "Morta" is another Italian word to describe "dolce far niente".
  • "Being there" comes to mind. Not the movie, necessarily, but the act. Whatever it's called, I probably have the equivalent of a PhD in it. :D

    LS
  • I think I may have seen a few people doing that exact same thing at the trailer parks. :B
  • I like your post. I can just say that its a thing few Americans know how to do, To (Just Be) And at least in parts of Italy they still do this at least a little each day.
  • Yes, but boondockers only need to empty tanks about once per week. That leaves 100+ hours to do nothing.
    But remember, "Being still and doing nothing are two very different things."

    The new 'thing' is "mindfulness." Though not in today's pop-psychology sense.
  • I can't say that it fits for boondockers. Remember, boondockers have to empty the tanks and fill up with water. That either means repeated trips with the Blue Boy or hauling up everything and going. I think it refers to FULL-Timers....no matter where they camp.
  • Due to all the different cultures across American I don't think one phrase would suffice.
    And each generation has there on 'thing'

    Mellow
    Grooving
    Chillin'
    Hang'n

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