We've been there several times. I really wanted to like this place but just can't quite come away with a completely satisfied feeling.....it just seems like there is a lot of unrealized potential there but they are still growing and building so that could be it. It is indeed very expensive but the facilities are nice and it must have cost a fortune to develop it in that location.
I think it comes down to what you are looking for. It's a nice place to bring a boat and fish or crab...they rent slips for larger boats and you can kayak right from their shores. It's a poor choice if your main purpose is going to the beach. With traffic the ocean beaches are 30-45 minutes away. Technically there is a beach there in the bay at the campground but it's a poor attempt.