"Resort" w/in a couple hours of Flint MI

Harbortown RV Resort in Monroe MI looks like it meets your criteria of paved sites, pool and allow golf carts. They do charge $30 for golf cart permit. 1.5 hours from Flint. www.harbortownrv.com

Are you traveling with or without kids?

While that happens to be exactly the sort of place we would never go, I can recommend two sources to search:
RV Park Reviews
Trip Advisor
In Trip Advisor, you will have to search for RV REsorts.

Good Luck, they are out there.

Matt

There is not much more to narrow to. The resort feel would include level sites,full hook up,50 amp, and big rig friendly (we have a 40' 5th wheel). We spend a lot of time at the campground but would like a day or two of of touristy stuff to do. We enjoy both natural or tourist traps. The most important thing is that we can bring our own golf cart and a pool.

Narrow it down more please