No food fight between kaydeejay and I at all as we PM'd each other long before your thread. He's a real good guy and there's zero direspect between us. Sometimes things can be interpeted differently between those in the same professions.
It's your rig and your money and you'll make the decisions for yourself and none of us have any say in what you can or cannot do or have.
It's the Internet and a open forum and there are those who claim you need a one ton dually to pull a 8,000 lb trailer on the highway or you'll crash and die and those who claim you can safely pull a 15,000 lb 5th wheel at 70 MPH with a V6 half ton truck and they do it all the time. You decide for yourself!
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