I would also recommend thorforums.com they have a DRV section and is very active.
OP do your self a favor and decide what item you want to keep. Now find a match. You need more truck for sure! If you want to keep the truck a 11-12K wet RV will be fine.
Keep the RV a 3500 SRW 13 and newer RAM may fit your needs. Of course you can always add 19.5's and bags to the truck. Then you will need to add more power if you tow out west or in the mountains.
Bottom line get a proper setup right from the beginning and enjoy Camping or you will be constantly chasing your tail.
