So here it is from a different perspective. I just sold my camper and truck and bought a cabin(August 7th) I built it with my dad, mom sold it 4yrs ago, I bought it back.(long story) so in the interim I rv'd. Am in the process of selling my tundra and 33'camper. If you where visiting me I say here's the key make sure there's cold beer in the fridge help yourself to anything. Not don't come up when I'm not there don't do this don't do that= control freaks. Tell wife she has no experience driving and could at the least damage the camper or get herself and family killed or someone else. Have her ask the cousins if she can stay in the cabin. Unless they let you come up when it's convenient for you too. How to prevent her from taking the trailer and truck tell her to hook it up, pack it up etc.. the flip side... you grumble for a week or she grumbles at you for a week?
