Whatever you do, always live for today, but plan for the tomorrows. Make it happen now as much as realistically possible in the form of shorter trips and compromises. Always be creating many treasured memories now.
There's a lot of rich folks in the cemetery that were always planning for just the tomorrows. Jandsa and Pipeman, hit the nail on the head. I sure wish we still had the same energy and body flexibility to do what we could a quarter century ago - it's all about quality not quantity in our book.
Kudos to you for such a rewarding and appreciated by many profession.