I'll let you both know how it goes. For the record, I don't think I will enjoy towing with the Tacoma. But I do think it will do it safely, and within all specs. I will be using weight distribution, anti sway, a brake controller, and air bags (all already ordered). I may have to do 50 the whole way there, but I will get there.
I wish the 614 would work, but it is just too small for my family.
I did some homework, and leaned on the info the guys shared over on the Tacoma forums. We will see how it goes.