Thanks folks! Actually it's a boy ;)
The Jayco Eagle HT 26.5 BHS was one of the units we were looking at. Even the 24.5 seems OK except for having to fold out the bed when MJ (my boy) needs to go to bed.
The dealers have been pretty good not pushing the higher end models. I noted though that 5th wheels anyway, seemed priced a lot lower in middle America.
Actually, Tucson is my destination. I'm retiring in a month and have another 6 months to extract myself from the SF Bay Area, South San Jose. Sure would like to see that show!