Thank you for your replies. I do think stealth camping in Sf area real be a little more difficult then I thought. And knocks at 2am are not welcome. If I was single it would not be a problem. Im going to research the threads some more and rent a rv to get used to the whole aspect of it. But its looking like we need to get a home base first. Maybe I find someone that will rent land to us to place our rv. I did not think of storage fees if we owned a townhouse. And no you think see a lot of rv in sf area. For the size of the city there should many more rv around.
We don't move to LA from Sf now because all our income is up here at the moment as well as family. Los Angeles your be big pay cut to transfer jobs. Our jobs here will allow us to save up for the life we want. Well back to the research.