Clueless where to start

I would suggest that you try renting one first. Maybe a class C and do some local traveling - it will give you a good idea of whether you like driving it, what it's limitations are, what you really need vs want. I would also agree with some of the others and tell you to contact some RV clubs that have other women who understand what you are going through and can help guide you. They can't decide for you but can answer any questions you may have. Escapees are excellent as the others posted above are also good. My suggestion is to take one step at a time. Don't get overwhelmed by it all. Banking, etc. is all simple with a computer and the internet. Bills can be paid online. There is an answer to it all but don't think you will get all of them right away. One at a time. Good luck - it sounds exciting.