Thank you everybody!
I only have a couple of weeks to make my medical elections for next year. So, we'll stay with that while the rest plays out. Her attorney for disability stated she is in fact immediately eligible, but her determination letter was less clear. If we weren't in the middle of a move and temporarily misplaced the paperwork, she'd have that discussion with the attorney.
For me, I'm ready to chuck the corporate career. We're also going through cutbacks, but my luck, people around me will get cut, and I'll get stuck doing their jobs too.
We just put up a new park model in a campground that's open year round in MI. This will be our permanent base. Our plan is in a year to get the SD and 5th wheel and travel 4-6 months. I wish I had more money going into retirement, but wine, women, and song... and I wasted some too :)