Threads like this really make me look at my DW's refusal to learn to drive the motorhome, or even the fine points (or any points) of hooking up, unhooking, levelling, dumping, etc.
At least after 3 years of "I ain't never living in that thing" she has grown to look forward to our future full timing as much as I am.
I'm hopeful that once it is our home, she can be convinced to become competent in hooking, unhooking, and driving the beast.
Then on the other hand, the only thing she knows about running the S&B is how to call me.