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ccxnola
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Feb 05, 2016

How old is TOO old??

I post this under the 'Safety Issues' heading as after many years of fun and enjoyable RV adventures, I must be realistic and make appropriate plans for our future.
My first RV experience (more years ago than I care to admit) was my grandfather taking my brother and I on a 'camping trip' in his 1940 Buick Roadmaster over the Tioga Pass in springtime and tent camping at Mono lake and yes, there was still snow on the ground. That gentleman taught me more that I can ever explain.
Now, I'm well into my 'Golden Years' and I do so like to travel each spring & summer to new places and meet new folks. (I am certain there are many friends I just have not yet met.)

BUT...the '97 MoHo is aging and I'm putting in the $$$ to ensure it is roadworthy and comfortable. Replacing rusted tanks and perished hoses is easy! But the 'nut behind the wheel' - is not easily upgraded. At 79, I am wondering how much longer it is prudent (and safe) for me to drive a class "A" on the highways. I 'think' I'm a good driver (no accidents in 20 years - other than when on a mountain road, an on-coming driver crossed over the yellow line and forced me into the guard rail to avoid a head-on!). I don;t want to quit and sell the rig too soon - but then, in this situation, better to be two years too soon than two weeks too late!!

I have set myself a goal of birthday 82 (3 years from now) to get off of the highway - unless I should sooner loose sight, depth perception or reaction time - then it would be immediate. Right now, I know I am slowing down, but am still a safe and prudent driver - but there are so many younger folks that do not understand that 55 MPH get's you there in just about the same time as 65 MPH! (Yes, I'm the double-nickle driver in the right lane - getting good mileage too!).

So' I'm raising this situation to find the views of the many folks that are actually enjoying their RV time - and seriously consider my earlier retirement if appropriate.
  • You will know when it is time to hang up the keys but it does not sound like you are there yet. I would drive less hours each day and drive in the daytime hours.
  • Just changed insurance companies and the new company has a discount for seniors who can show evidence of a recent "drivers class". Wonder if you looked into one of those classes, it would help set your mind at ease regarding your driving skills.
  • At 68 years, I agree that questioning is valid and necessary. What I want to make sure of is that I don't mistake the occasional "oops!" with an overall decline, that should spell the end of driving for me. I have absolutely loved driving since the old red Farmall tractor on dad's lap at 6! I have driven taxi in a military area, concrete mixer, and appliance service van, plus all the "civilian" driving. Still, the first thought has to be when is enough, enough.

    Happy, safe travels to you, OP, and other campers!
  • Find a good commercial driving school and have them take you through a simulated driving test. My grandfather quit driving after an accident in which the other party was charged but I remember him saying to my dad ".. but knew she was going to run the stop sign and I should have stopped but I didn't. I could have avoided the accident. I shouldn't be driving." My dad didn't replace his car after my mother was killed in an accident (she was alone in the car). He said that he could probably walk more if he got a new artificial leg! He was 79. Walked the mile to town and caught the one and only taxi home. I hope I will know when it is my turn.

    I had a dear friend who at the age of 96 passed his medical and road test with flying colours then sold his . . . wait for it....Camper van! He moved into assisted living after selling his house at the age of 99 because he couldn't look after his garden anymore. He dies at the age of 104, mind sharper than mine is. He is my hero! Though I hope like my dad and grandfather I'll stop driving before I really have to.
  • If you are cognizant enough too question your abilities, then you are probably fine. When you can't remember how or when you got where you are, then ask someone else to take you home. And stay there!
  • You're wise to consider the future, but you sound like the type of person who will be realistic when it's time to hang up the keys. It sounds to me like you're not there yet, and will know when you are. I would be willing to ride in front of, behind, or with you. Wishing you many more happy, and safe miles.