ron.dittmer wrote:
I think j-d is referring to this thing. It is called a Quiet Hitch. I bought 2 of them and use them, one on each end of the hitch riser. It does eliminate all play. The draw back is that you need tools to remove the hitch from the motor home, but I leave the hitch attached to the motor home during trips. The wrench is used only at home.
I should have included this information in my original response....sorry.

Holy cow!! THAT'S what I need for my Ford Escape hitch when pulling my utility trailer!!!!! Thanks, Ron!!