Who's the crazy one?
When I bought my motorhome and brought it home, my Father in Law came out to see it. I say came out because he and his wife (remarried after mother in law died) live in an "in-law" apartment in my ho...
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fla-gypsy wrote:
You allowed this to take place and only you can do something about it.
While I feel this answer would be my exact one too, you really haven't disclosed as to WHY you let it get this way in the first place. Who knows? It could be a long, drawn out sad story as to why you let him and his new wife enter your life this way.
But the point is, somehow, if he is truly thinking that it is your JOB to supply him with a home, AND A VACATION HOME, then something has lead him to command this type of thinking. Maybe you've provided such a nice "Pillow" of cushion in life that, he just thinks it should go on and, even for you to provide more, due to the fact that apparently you've not been compelled to COMPLAIN to him about his type of existence.
So, if he figures what the heck, I'm getting this much out of my son-in-law now, why not go for more???
But, if it were me, I'd have never let it get this far in the first place. IF, and when he even THOUGHT ABOUT MOVING IN TO OUR HOME in the first place, all kinds of stipulations/rules/compensation/help/boundries would have been laid out waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay in advance. That way, EVERYONE is on the same page.
And, you'd never have this problem you're having now. Good luck.
Scott
