I think BenBen is about ready/ not ready see last note

I guess there is no right or wrong here....our little girl, Ziggy, was very ill with her cancer...we decided to take for a weeklong trip at the end of last year. While she was a lot of work, she did so well and we were so blessed to have her with us to bring in the New Year...the day we got back she started going downhill and a day later she died sleeping next to me in bed. I am so thankful we took her.We still miss her terribly.