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M_GO_BLUE1
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May 29, 2013

QUALITY OF LIFE

There's a time with our pets when we go FROM doing anything and everything we can to keep our pets healthy TO maintaining quality of life...

Our pet is Blue, a 19 1/2 year old female blue russian cat that has been for the most part healthy for her entire life (since I adopted her and her sister (passed away April 2003) when they were both only 4 months old.

The hard part for most of us is realizing when maintaining quality of life supercedes anything else and what makes it even harder is Blue has been a part of the family all these years.

Right now she has a few small problems but nothing major...she can still eat, drink, use the litter box and most importantly, still takes time to clean herself...she lost her teeth at 15 but still loves her hard food, touch of diabetes I'm sure, and hearing is all but gone but still seeks us out or should I say seeks out our laps...

I know we are on borrowed time (heck we have been on borrowed time for the past 8 1/2 years considering how long most cats live) and we will do what we can to maintain her quality of life but once that is gone we will have to male the "decison", but we can only hope the 19 1/2 years since she "adopted" us will last just a few more years...

Thanks for listening...

24 Replies

  • I battled this dilemma recently with my beloved dog, and there are no easy answers. He did not tell me "it was time" - however, he was losing weight and strength; then one leg grew more and more uncooperative, until it was finally my fear that he would fall and REALLY hurt himself, that made me make that awful decision. I'm sure if you asked HIM - he would have said something about the other 3 legs sort of worked and he was OK with that..... sort of like the French Knight in Monty Python's "Holy Grail" who keeps losing body parts and still hurls insults at his foes....

    I guess there just comes a point when each person says "I love you too much to see you live like that"
  • I've found that we all know when it is time because they tell you. Whether it be a look in their eyes as if to say now, or whatever. You will know when it's time and I think there is solace in knowing that.

    She sounds pretty darn healthy for a senior cat!
  • This is the hardest part IMO when you bring them into our lives!

    Pops
  • It's always so difficult to make the decision when it finally comes but one that every pet "owner" makes sooner or later. We have a 19 year old cat and her 18 year old daughter.