Code2High wrote:
chrisnpat wrote:
Thanks everyone, Susan although it was very hard, I agree with you about accepting the process better.
Maggie was miserable and in a lot of pain, all the fixes we tried to do made it worse for her.
Knowing I could help her never to hurt again, (my last act of Love), really helped me a lot.
Yes... that... I find I recognize the landmarks along the way better these days, and I don't like where I'm going, but there's less.... I guess less agonizing about it in some respects. I know that I can end the pain, as you say, and I pretty much know that I have to.
And after, I know that it's just going to have to suck for a while, and then I'll feel better. I still feel awful, but I know that will end as well.
You both have said this so well. As "parents" to our beloved four legged children, it is our responsibility to take care of them in every way and aspect. It's hard, but it's a part of loving them fully.