Spoon, this has gotten waaaay out of hand. I'm just asking you to relax a bit. There is no written in stone ways to do anything. I do things that annoy others. It's not intentional. You do things that annoy others, and I would like to think its not intentional on your part either. You're just not the only one that has to deal with stress. Most of us whiteheads have already dealt with screaming kids and work schedules, so we know where you're coming from. Just try to realize we're all just trying to enjoy our limited time on this planet and doing the best we can.
Peace? Brother?