Newbie - confused about hitch weight

Ok, I won't say that that is way too much trailer for your truck. Loaded weight will be about 8500, which means a 1100 lb tongue weight. What is the payload of your truck? How many pounds of people and gear will be in the truck? Do the math. The figures are not in your favor.
I would not even consider driving that combo. Sorry about the weight police comments but you need to reconsider.