My personal minimum is 30A FHU, WIFI, cable and enough space so I can't touch the camper next to me while still inside my own. I've stayed in places that had concrete pads, pools, propane, laundry and/or a daily paper delivered to my site and consider those pluses.
Also stayed at one place that had a well stocked store, concrete patios with furniture, riding stables, a playground, a restaurant, a snack bar, a pizza place, and free pancake breakfast every day. It was nice but I chose not to join in because I'm gone every day and inside at night. And I don't care if its called a park, resort or campground. Those don't mean anything - good or bad.