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HuckFinn410
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Feb 18, 2014

16 year old just drove off in my truck

My 16 year old daughter got her driver’s license yesterday. That in itself is traumatic.

My precious truck……at least to me….is now in the hands of my 16 year old DD, at least for today. It wasn’t half this hard when my son starting driving. He was a great driver from day one.

While, driving her around to her ridiculous amount of extracurricular dance, school and social activities, has been a pain in the you know what at times, it always gave us the chance to spend some quality time discussing our day and allowing me to stay connected to her social circle, her friends and her life. Her last umbilical was that need to get driven here and there and get picked up. Now that she has a license, and likely soon a car, it’s really bumming me out that its now one less thing that I have any control over. That list is growing and growing.

That truck has safely carried our family and towed our trailer all over the country….Oregon Coast, Yellowstone, Black Hills, Southern California, the Ozarks too many times to mention. It’s been the best vehicle I’ve ever had.

Anyway, enough whining. She’s an incredibly bright, trustworthy and level headed kid. I trust her in my truck and I’m glad that she has 5500 lbs. +/- of truck around her to protect her. Momma has an Odyssey…another 5000lb. beast.

I guess it’s time to get on Craigslist to find a beater for her…….

45 Replies

  • Did it have a full tank of gas?? Try to convince her, (:) that as an older truck, it really needs to be maintained, and show her how to check the oil occasionally, always take a look at the tires, and never assume that it will stop when she hits the brakes. There are so many (kids and ?adults) that only know that if you push this petal it goes, and the other one stops.
  • Friend of mine, long time ago.
    When he bought his daughter's first car threatened to take out the back seat. His reasoning was it was usually a car load of kids that got into terrible accidents.
    Her response... "Great, room for a mattress".
    The seat stayed in.
  • Huck,
    Check with your insurance agent on the price differences for policies depending on number of drivers and number of vehicles. We found that it was cheaper to have all drivers on their own car instead of having less cars than drivers. Seems stupid since more cars mean more risk at any given time but that's the way it broke out for us.
    Best of luck to you and the Daughter with driving. It's only those first few weeks and then the anxiety will abate.
  • Sounds like a perfect excuse to give the DD the old truck and get yourself a new one. Safety is #1 after all.
  • It's hard to let go, but you will get through it.


    When you buy a beater, get a HEAVY one!

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