elle8, WOW you said it. Well, don't feel alone because I know I (I won't say WE and include DH in this) ask dumb(? and who is the judge of what is dumb?) questions and we have been RVing for years. We are always ready to hear opinions and ideas and learn something new. I just got blasted on this RV Lifestyle section myself. I just choose to move on to another section where the chat is pleasant. Mostly we have gotten really nice, helpful and friendly advice on this forum. There are all sorts of people out there and some appear to be having a bad day. So keep asking the questions and those of us who maybe know some answers will be happy to help you.