Nicely said. I actually started on this forum almost a year ago and kind of went through the same thing. Some answers, opinions or whatever you want to call them seemed rude. I actually went to another forum on rv'ing and it was twice as bad. My thought is that these forums are there to encourage, help answer questions, and help people who are "green" to the whole idea of rv'ing. No so on the other forum. That's why I came back to this one.
We all don't have unlimited knowledge or budgets for what we dream we want to do. If we all had unlimited abilities, knowledge, budgets then there would be no need for forums such as this.