I've been through the divorce thing, but I was 38 and that was 25 years ago. Lived a couple of years as a single father. I like your attitude Hookie. You're a survivor and will make it.
One thing I learned while going through counseling after my separation and divorce - You're responsible for your own happiness. Don't depend upon others to make you happy. And when you're out there in the world having the life you want, finding your own happiness, you will be noticed by someone that likes what they see.
Live your dreams!