Many of us are B&W fanboys. I think everyone should decide for themselves, by actually looking at/comparing the choices, to decide what is best for them. I would not let $200 stop me, from getting the hitch I want, but in all fairness, I'm not on a tight budget either.
Cummins12V98 is a strong advocate of the B&W hitches, as we have seen his posts/pics many times. It was nice of him to take the time to post actual comparison pictures, as he has access to both. I think you will be very happy with the 20K B&W for Ford pucks, but I have no experience with the Curt.
Jerry