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loulou57
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May 24, 2014

Disabled Parking Permits

In Ontario we get 50% off provincial park campgrounds if you have a valid Ontario disabled parking permit. You also do not require a fishing license. Odd, I know.

I have one. I have been asked on so many occasions, why do you have that, you look fine, what's your problem?

My hubby and I have been yelled at, cursed at and given the unofficial universal sign language on many occasions.

I do not use a disabled spot if there are only a couple of them. I always think someone may come in with a wheelchair and need the space.
Also in the campground, if I am assigned the disabled Site, I always say if someone comes in with a wheelchair we will move to another Site. Just because we get the discount does not mean we have to use a disabled Site, we can use any we choose.

I am not a senior, I do not use a wheelchair and my disability is not always noticeable.

Why do people think it is their right to harass myself and others. They think I owe them an explanation.

It is illegal for anyone, a security person, parking attendant or even a police officer to ask me why I have a permit and demand an answer.

Has anyone else had this issue? What do you do?

We have found that when someone says...do you realize that this parking spot is for a disabled person, I answer, yes I do.

We have been followed into the store with someone yelling at us the whole way into a store, only to have the manager come and say...you really need to move your truck, you obviously have no disability. Another time someone added to his non verbal words that if I could drive a truck I had no disability....Really???
  • The problem is that there is so much fraud with the disabled permits. I've seen television reporters questioning people about their permits, only to find out they were using someone else's permit.

    Now, in some states and provinces, all a person needs to do is convince a doctor that they have a disability which will allow them to get a permit from the motor vehicle department. There are no checks and balances, and there is very little in the way of follow up years down the road. I know a person who got a permit for a sore knee. A few years later, it got bad enough for them to have the knee replaced. Did they give up the permit when they healed up? Heck no. It's nice to be able to park closer. In fact, he'd carry a cane in order to keep from getting bothered.

    So if you don't have an obvious disability, you will get harrassed and yelled at. It's just a fact of life. Too many people are taking advantage of a system that was designed to help severly handicapped people live life a little easier. I don't have much sympathy for those catch some flack when they don't really have the special needs.