I'm in the same boat. I prefer to do the driving and it's hard to give up my seat, towing or not. I've been trying to get my wife to see the importance of being prepared in the event of an injury for years. Can't trade her in for a new one so I work with what I've got. I do make a point of explaining everything I do so she understands the purpose. Now just need to find a way to get her behind the wheel. Problem is every other year the tt seems to get bigger right when she's about to get comfortable.