I am a 60-something year old widow driving her own 36' motor home with toad. I LOVE driving it! It's fun, and my Honda Element feels like a tiny little Smart car when I park the RV and use it. I've gotten in a few tight spots, but patience and unhooking the toad took care of them quickly. Backing up is easy too. Again, the key is patience and not being ashamed to stop the RV, get out, and go look before backing further. My DH used to try to tell me that driving a truck was hard & he had me pretty intimidated for a long time, but I think that was just because he didn't want me to take his fun away!