Glad you got it figured out.:) One comment however:
You stated on 09/09/17, in response to a suggestion to re-do your hitch set-up:
"Wont help. Already went through the entire process, and have the WD setup properly.".
Now in this post above you say:
"Best part is I gained 400# of payload in the truck now that it is actually properly distributed. The 800# bars were too light for this truck and trailer, they would have to touch the frame to get it anywhere near where the BO is now. Returned the weight forward to where it should be, and returned a near equal amount back to the trailer. I do know there is no sway at all, even when I try to induce it."
If it is properly distributed now then I suggest it was not properly distributed way back last September when you first started posting about it. Were you just guessing about the weights then or had you already been to a scale and gotten actual readings?
I have a feeling that your problem this whole time has probably been improper hitch setup or possibly not enough tongue weight. Anyway, regardless of what was, is, or has been, I am glad you got it straightened out and can now enjoy a smooth towing experience. :)
Barney