I am on my second Trekker. I really like mine. It’s not any harder to hook to than any other hitch. I use my tongue jack and a 16” cheater bar. My trailer is also 36’ and 10k. With 1400# bars it works well. If you have over 10 degrees sway any hitch is going to be overwhelmed and you’re likely in the dit h or over the cliff.
I like the option of full strength sway control, none at all or somewhere in between.
The downside is the little pads that make it quiet. They are cheap and poorly mounted. They wear out quickly and fall off. Campco says CW sells them but I don’t know; I’ve been banned from their store.
Overall mine has worked well. It’s easy to connect/disconnect and there is no grease. The head is pretty heavy but not unmanageable.