Ok guys...I have a bunch of numbers to throw your way.  I'll also try to add pics.
*Trailer hitch height-24''
SUV wheel wells  Front-36''
                 Back - 36''
Ball height -23''
*Loaded without WD
SUV wheel wells  Front-36 3/4
                 Back -Nearly 34, maybe 33 14/16
Trailer riding nose down a lot
*Loaded with 7 links on bars
SUV wheel well    Front-36 1/2
                  Back -34 1/2
*Loaded with 6 links on bars
SUV wheel well    Front-36 1/4
                  Back -34  3/4
Trailer riding nose down a bit using WD
Anything jump out at you?  Should I try to move the ball height up?  My next option will probably be about 24"