Sorry that your weekend was cut short, OP.
I rarely contact the camp host when a rule is broken that involves social behavior. I reserve official contact with the camp host for garbage left over night, locked bathroom stalls and water hoggers.
Park security is who I contact for rowdy campers and when signing in at the office I store their number in my cell phone as do most of the people who camp nearby.
I pay good money and time to score a holiday weekend reservation, know what to expect to a certain degree and go with the flow. Life is too short for me to change my plans to accommodate miscreants.