How do you carry Blue Tote?

We have ours because we can't make it a week (7 days). We dry camp a lot and there are no dump stations nearby. We can go 5 nights max and the grey tank (40gal) is almost full. We do dump dishwater down the toilet. We also leave a small dish pan in the shower to catch extra water and dump it down the toilet as well. We take Navy showers and have a wash station for hands outside the 5'er. We conserve as best as we can. We eat like we eat at home, so we have more dishes to clean than if we were just BBQing burgers or weenies. I feel that the tote gives us that extra insurance that we don't have to conserve every drop of water or take sponge baths. We want to enjoy our outings not sacrifice so much that it's not fun. We don't take it on every trip obviously and in fact only pack it once or so a year.