I can't decide between a Hensley or ProPride Hitch.

HA user here. The word on the stinger is right on... They weigh a ton. It takes both my SO and myself to put it in place. Yes, I could do it myself, but after 3 back surgeries I won't try. The word about not using adaptors is news to me and I will call the factory on Tues. The 2017 Ford F-350 comes with a 3" hitch so adapters are a must. I also need two stingers as the truck rides at two different heights depending on whether there are two ATVs on or not. Never had a problem hitching. Plenty pricey.