You both need a long sit down and discuss what's most important to your family, wants and needs.
We've been retired for 14 years. We have a cottage where we spend the summer. When we retired we bought a trailer and Snowbirded all over for seven years. Eventually we decided it wasn't fun anymore, been there, done that. We tent camped for twenty years before we got tired of sleeping on the ground and bought the cottage.
What I'm trying to say is don't get stuck in a rut. Figure out what you enjoy and aim for that.