That's right. You're both just victims of circumstances. :R
Such a weird coincidence that you both have such similar member names and neither one of you can leave the other one alone. It still feels to me like a domestic quarrel that rolled out into the streets. I guess it's too late to hug it out though.
Take a break. Walk away from the keyboard. Go toss a tennis ball to the dog for a while. I know we're all cooped up, but there are still outlets to blow off some steam.
For the time being though, both of you are going to have all your future posts deleted until you can post like civil adults again.
Good luck. And apologies to everyone else for the drama.