My patio lights is on a motion detector both front and back and timer. I can also bring it ON with a key fob which has about a 40-50 foot range. Great for walking to the bath room after dark. I always adjust the sensitivity of the motion detector using black tape if we are real close to folks walking up and down the road in front of us. You have to be walking up to the trailer to turn on the patio lights.
We pretty much go dark after 10PM each night. I'm pretty sure folks can hear my TV going sometimes with our fabric tent end and wall panels...
We try hard to blend-in with all the surrounding folks...
Roy Ken