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Desert_Captain
Explorer III
Jul 25, 2019

Lost my dad...

My father passed away Sunday night at the age of 92. He had been in nursing home for 3+ years suffering from severe dementia, could no longer speak, see or hear... it was time. We lost mom to Parkinson's 3 years ago.

He served 30 years in the Navy, most of those on diesel submarines having earned his Dolphins before I was born and retired as a Master Chief. I post this tribute here as it was dad who introduced me to camping. Being an enlisted man our family had very little money and camping was our great escape.

When I was 9 and my sister just 3 dad bought a used 1960 VW camper bus and it served out family of four very well for years. When not camping in northern Baja we traveled extensively throughout the southwest visiting nearly all of the National Parks. He instilled a love of the outdoors and backed that up with full participation in Scouting serving as a merit badge counselor and assistant scoutmaster.

Between dad and scouting I learned well the lessons of life in the great outdoors and will always be grateful. My bride and I have been RV'ing for 12 years making the usual progression... from pop up {Aliner}, to 22' TT and ultimately to our 24' Class C {Nexus}.
While dad's camping days were history he always enjoyed sharing our adventures and marveling at how far things have come.

I am really going to miss him... sigh.

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  • I'm sorry to hear. My grandpa just passed a few months ago, he was 99. They sound like the same type of guy...grandpa worked for the Navy since WWII through the 1980s. He was in the group that developed the sonar technology for the submarines so he also spent a lot of time of them. It was top secret back then. They were big camping folks too... the tent I grew up using was their old one, and then later they bought a little fiberglass trailer. My aunt still uses it.

    Take care of yourself :)
  • my heart goes out to you and your family on your loss. thoughts and prayers coming your way. i lost my dad 50-yrs ago today (7/25/69)...he was 48...and while the pain has eased it is still there. treasure your memories, embrace them to help you through the next days, weeks and months.
  • So sorry to hear. The next year will be hard, but relive and enjoy those precious memories, and create some new ones with your family.
    My dads been gone 11 years and I still miss him. But I treasure the memories and old photos that tell his story.

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