Matching hitch up to trailer - Not exact - close enough?

So don't add any weight to the front. Guess my ram isn't my dad's station wagon - was a Buick Roadmaster by the way.

More tilt should give me more links under tension - I only have two now but I'll see what it's like after I readjust the ball height. Does tilt do anything else?

After all is said and done if the back sags too much I guess look at some bags? I was hoping to avoid but I know the 1500 is fairly "weak" back there.

Thanks for all the help - it's starting to make more sense.