Just a quick update!
I've now towed with the Hensley 5 or 6 times. The difference is simply incredible. I have no problem towing on the interstate at 65mph with 30+mph crosswinds. This would have been a scary event with my previous hitch and is now a non issue.
I took the truck/camper by the scales and the weight distribution is working very well, but my tongue weight is heavier than I would have guessed and the 1400 lb bars may be in my future. Current tongue weight is about 1200 lbs and the camper fully loaded to camp is ~8700 lbs.
If you are thinking about buying this hitch, I cannot recommend this strongly enough! Hitching and unhitching are no problem thanks to the backup camera. I also LOVE the fact I can now open my tailgate with the trailer hooked up.