I managed to get our 2003 Ford Explorer set up with the "Neutral Tow Mode". Total cost = $32.49 (+ tax on the LED light.)An aquaintance of mine works at a dealership and was able to program the ECM for me. He only charged me $30.00.
Ford wanted $249.00 for the kit + 1 hr. labor to program the ECM for the Neutral Tow mode. Add to that, the parts manager at the dealership wasn't sure if they could even get the kits any more and if so, how long it would take to get one in.
Now, just have to order in the brackets and get the rest done. (I didn't want to order anything in until I knew for sure that the Neutral Tow Mode would work.)
Thanks for all of the helpful information.