Thanks for the responses. When I went to Honda orinigally the manual for the Pilot and Oyds both stated in the 2wd models must be towed on a dolly and on 4wd must be towed with 4 wheels off the ground.
I know the GMC/Chevy fits the mold, however look wise we just arent fans. I hate to base a decision on how good something looks but I personally find it ugly.
Who knows, maybe we will fall in love with the Jeep Cherokee... but for now I keep looking at the curb weight on the durango and am trying to figure out how to make it work....