I had a similar problem in Carmel, Indiana. (Hamilton County). I moved to a cornfield in Madison County. I couldn't win, and my philosophy is, "I sleep where my camper parks." If I can't park it at home, I'm not living there. We moved.
Unfortunately, it took some time to get relocated. Meanwhile, we had to do something with the camper. My in-laws lived about 60 miles from there, but they have a farm. We ended up taking the camper there. It sat for almost 9 months over a 20 degree below zero winter. Unfortunately, I could not just run up and tend to the camper ever night. The shower walls ended up cracking, the linoleum floor cracked, some of paneling on the walls cracked due to the extreme cold and no way to tend to it to keep it warmed during those extreme cold days.
Finally, we moved anyway. We had 2 mortgages, 2 houses, and 2 sets of real-estate to maintain 25 miles apart from each other, working full time in Information Technology which demanded lots of overtime and strange night hours. It was a mess. But it was WORTH it 100%. You guessed it, we didn't do much camping that year.
YOU have to make up your mind what's most important to you. Your RV lifestyle or the **** neighbors you have to live beside every day! Moving may be your best option. We found out we were very hateful toward our neighbors when all this went down. We could not have continued living there, even if the rules changed. The grapes were spoiled, never to be the same.
The photo below was taken the day we brought the camper home from the in-laws to the new house (we moved in late February, the camper came home about a week after we moved the first load of furniture). It was one of the happiest day of my life! And have absolutely NO regrets about moving, the problems selling the old house, the expenses, the work, the aggravation, the stress, or the headaches. It was ALL worth it now! We live in peace now!