Towing with a 4Runner or Explorer---experiences, please!

All I could afford wrote:
Are we talking new explorers and for runners or a particular model year range for each? It will make a big difference in your answer

Good point.

I'm thinking to buy next year, and 3-4 years old at that point. So 2014 or 2015 models.

Also I would only consider the Explorer trim levels with the 3.5L Ecoboost engine.

Newer 4Runners come with a 4.0 L V6, which is very capable of hauling a lightweight trailer.

I plan to stick with a trailer 4500 lb loaded or less, probably less. I travel light.