JayGee wrote:
D & M wrote:
JJBIRISH wrote:
JayGee
“gnore the negative posts, sometimes you are guilty here until proven innocent. A lot of good info and RVing advice can be found on this forum sometimes by the same people that sound negative.”
There is a good reason for that… the answer or best advice or best opinions for post made may require a negative response, or a negative response offers the best results to a problem, or the negative response is nothing more than differing opinions… but differing opinions is neither negative or positive, just different considerations…
ScottG
“Yes, ignore those that always feel the need to rub salt in peoples wounds - there's a few of them on every forum.
We are indeed a community and the people in a community should support each other.”
If this is what or how you feel perhaps a forum of counselors is the place to express your rants, not a public forum where you will get real public opinion and criticism…
We are a community and a source for information and opinion with the intention of trying to offer or find good information from a wide audience of experiences and expertise…
Support is fine but completely unnecessary if truth and reality and living experience is where the answers are found… coddling is not true support of any value and where a forum of consolers would be better suited…
minn camping family
“And I actually appreciate when someone posts about their dealer experiences, both good and bad. When making a very large RV purchase and/or arranging service I want as much information as possible about who I'm dealing with.”
What value is any information from a unquestioned one side source (rant) full of biases, if the biases isn’t ferreted out and reason is discounted just to be supportive…
What you want is as much accurate information as you can find about who you are dealing with… operating with bad information is no better and maybe worse than having none and forming you own opinion in real time…
well thought out
I think you are saying that it is OK for people to post their negative opinion which is what the OP and several others have done. All opinions and experiences are one sided, forums allow other opinions to be expressed as arguments. That's why there are sites like rvparkreview etc. My original point was to look for the good advice inside of all the posts.
I would like for the OP to come back and address some questions and provide an update too, but not likely to happen now. I understand them wanting out of the $8000 deal, I have felt burned in a deal or two and I didn't like it. Someone might avoid a mistake in the future if they read this thread. Much better prices can probably be found for that service.
I am… a negative opinion can be every bit as valid as a positive one… also your main point is correct…
The problem here are the rants deserve more scrutiny because the party the rant is directed at cannot respond... contracts can not be seen, and by nature the ranter feels slighted or burned and cheated… all too often these opinions expressed are overly biased to a fault to support their facts and may discard or intentionally overlook facts that may harm their stated opinion even if the discarded facts are crucial… seldom is there full disclosure from a initially posted rant, and fluid answers or no answers farther question credibility…
every often a ranters stated opinions would not even be their own opinion if they were not so closely involved or even if they stated their opinion some time farther into the future…
its Just human nature, or the nature of the beast… the best we can do is to carefully read what the rant says try to apply our own knowledge and experiences and try to make some sense out of them… but that usually generates more questions than answers…
those questions should be asked and hopefully be reasonably addressed…
support may be nice but IMHO shouldn’t be automatic…
even in rants of my own I have softened and/or strengthened my opinion based on differing opinions given, even though my own opinions are admittedly not easily swayed, they to should be questioned… and usually are… :B