winnietrey wrote:
I understand, and do not question, the reason folks retire. Job stress, health, want to do something different.
For some I think, it was the best thing they ever did, for others not so much.
I think, I fall in the latter category. I like my job, I have no real hobbies, I enjoy all that much. I take a lot of time off, and travel, we are healthy. I think for me, retirement could be one of the worst things I could do. Just wondering if anyone else feels the same. With my personality I think I would be bored stiff
Not retired yet, BUT, I AM looking forward to retiring, 10 years or less leaning towards much less for me..
I WORK to live (IE pay bills, buy food, shelter, ect), not live to work (IE, work life is my only life and without work I am nothing).
Big, big difference.
I have seen way to many DIE early, never to retire.. Pretty sad that they never got to chance to wake up in the morning and not have to punch the employers time clock.
I look at it like retirement is moving on from punching an employers time clock on set times daily to MYSELF deciding what and when I want to do each day without the interference of upper management.
My Dad retired at 58 with 38 years of employment at the same place, was the very best thing he could have done. He has had a very rich and wonderful retirement.. Snow birded south for 15 yrs before he and my Mom could not take the drive.. Mom is gone now but Dad is still living at 89 yrs young.. But he too is slowing down, losing his eye sight, hearing and strength.
I would recommend you start finding a few hobbies, hook up with some friends, volunteer some time at homeless shelters, Red Cross, Habitat for Humanity.. Surely there is some things you might enjoy that do not involve employment.. Make a "bucket list" then go do it.
We come into this world with nothing and we leave this world with nothing.. All of the vast riches of this earth cannot stop it. We are here to help others with not just money but OUR "TIME" we have in this world. we are here to make a difference in others lives..