Weight Distributing Hitch has anyone not used one

I have an 08 CCLB F350 and pull a lightweight 26' TT. I do not use a WDH, but I have installed a friction swaybar. The biggest problem I have is the TT acting like a kite. The heavier the TT the better it handles. I prefer a full water tank if possible. And weight in the bed is fine as long as you don't overload your rear tires. I've had UTV's and just plain cast iron weight in the back of the truck, and the more weight in the truck, the better it handled.