I'm female. Have previously been a partner in a TT, looking to buy a B+ in a year or so. I had a pretty good handle on the technical aspects of the TT, understand the electronics pretty well. Also did a good bit of the driving, for what that's worth. Not the best at backing, mostly from lack of practice. I'm on here to contribute what I can, and learn a lot (hopefully) to avoid pitfalls and problems in buying and owning.
So far as the sniping/arguing, when a thread goes that way, I just click off and ignore it. Lots of other useful stuff to read so no need to waste time on the griping/sniping/complaining.